Is marriage really more than the engagement ring, the wedding dress, the invitations, the church, the vows, the reception and so on? You know I'm beginning to realize that there is so much more than that, so much responsibility that comes along with a lifetime full of experiences that can actually be Wonderful aside from the general obstacles whether big or small that may arise. you know going into this I sort of knew what to expect, or how to handle certain situations. Sometimes i just wing it, actually believing that there is this unwritten Manuel to refer to if things suddenly got crazy or complicated. This was practically an illusion made up by the mind, a kind of reassurance that everything is going to be just fine. little did i know that i was in for a rude awakening, and that awakening is called "Baby Mama" or in better terms Extended family. This is Where the wonderful term of "Baggage" comes into play.
Baggage, is compiled into three basic categories, Past, Present and future. what you did in your past definitely impacts the rest of your life. from the choices and the decisions you made, to the people you allowed to either influence or to be apart of your life makes a difference in you future.
For example; Having Children from previous relationships. Don't get me wrong, I always believe children are a blessing, never a mistake, though the mistake i feel is who you have them with sometimes. The Drama, The Drama...
To Be Continued...
